“Listen more than you talk. Nobody learned anything by hearing themselves speak” Richard Branson
Most the time we are in a conversation, we really do not care what other people are saying, we are just waiting and thinking about what we are going to say next. This is way to common for most people and one of our worst qualities. Often times, we end conversations, not knowing what the other person said and feeling good because we got to unload our feelings and thoughts on others. Instead we should work on staying present in the conversation and actively listening.
Next time you are in a conversation and you start to think what you are going to say next, stop, and listen. Listen to what the other person is saying and they may answer the question you are thinking of asking. Also, people can tell when you are listening and giving them your full attention. They will enjoy the conversation a lot more and truly feel you care about them. This will also make you feel better because you are being present with someone else and making them feel valued.
I know this is hard and I am guilty of forgetting to do this all the time. However, if you can conquer this, people will tell you just about anything you want to hear.
Really listen in your next conversation you have and see how much better the conversation is.
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-Shaun Tutor
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